Hi Gloria!
From my experience, or rather what I learned from my younger years, was from a welsh pony. I owned her from the time I was eight years old until I sold her when I was twenty three. She was still teaching kids to ride when she died a few years ago. These are NOT the little pony types like a shetland. I was bought a shetland stallion when I was five and had never ridden by myself til then. Now, looking back on the terrifying experience, it is a wonder I ever kept on riding! Welsh pony and welsh pony crosses have a much more laid back temper than the shetland types. Best of all is that they come in all sizes! The great Teddy O'Connor was a welsh cross and even made the olympic short list before his untimely death last year. I would think it would be best for your daughter to have her own mount, rather than riding with you on the same horse. This way she will learn balance and develop a good seat. My dad made me ride bareback for two years before I ever used a saddle. Let me tell you, I could balance on anything, from horses to surfboards when I got older. The most important thing is to let her ride and be with the horse she picks several times before you purchase it. Horses tempers can change from day to day just like humans, and one ride in one day won't tell you much. Also an older horse that is well broke is usually the best bet. Horses, or rather large ponies about 13 or so hands usually have more longetivity than a regular pony size. Good luck in your search!

Dear Pam,

Thanks for that great advice regarding ponies. I am being begged daily by Emma and the welsh pony or welsh pony cross sounds like a great idea. I've got to sell a few things at H & H Horse before we head down that path, but I am learning much every day.
Jay

Thanks so much. Welcome back to the business.

I'll post some pictures. She looks pretty smart in the saddle.